Is it Right??????????

I admit i'm creatively challenged....but i'm not sure whether changing name of one's blog frequently is bad.

I do feel a bit guilty though....as evry other blogger i too want people to read my posts, comment n in the process encourage me. So in an effort to do tht i try to find a name tht's funny, catchy yet which reflects me. Now i do realize tht if smeone wud revisit my blog after the first instance it wud purely b based on the fact tht how much my life's trivia amazes thm....still

So far i'v managed to come up with Virgin diaries, Hope n Dreams  n the latest Mad Mad Mili. Let me explain the reasons for change. 

1.  Virgin diaries : this title had to do with the fact tht i'm a virgin in the sense tht i still hv to discover a lot in this journey called life. Changed bcoz whn one fine day i decided to google my blog's name, i found tht my blog was nowhere to be found n top of tht it threw at my face links of semi - porn sites .... too bad 

       

moving  on 

2. Hope n Dreams : these two words describe how i deal with life's dramas. Changed because it sounded more like opening to some kind of heavy duty sermon.  

n the latest n i think the last in the series 

3. Mad Mad Mili : till now my best effort. it tells every one tht i'm MAD n tht the posts tht follow will prove my point.

I think i'll stick with this. Wt say...

~Soni~

Meaning of LIFE

Though I still hv to find out the real meaning n purpose of my life I thought tht a post abt how some wise people hv described life, wud b vry appropriate. 

So here r some sayings n quotes which really help me whn i'm down n out.

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.

*** Its soooo true in my case***

True love cannot be found where it truly does not exist, 
Nor can it be hidden where it truly does.

*** I have experienced the first line....waiting for the second***

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real! 

*** Just reading this line made my heart ache***

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; 

they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

***I'm struggling to live by this principle***

I Want a guy who calls me Beautiful instead of Hot, who calls me back when I hang up on Him,Who will stay Awake just to watch Me Sleep. The guy who Kisses my Forehead, who wants to Show me off to the World, who Holds my Hand in front of his Parents, who Thinks I'm just as Pretty with no make- up on, the one who is cconstantly Reminding me of How much he cares about Me and how Lucky He is to have ME..

*** Will I ever be successful in finding one of these rare variety***

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. 

*** I'm xperiencing this***

It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. 

*** How nicely put***

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours. 

*** True but Plain Painful***

Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the  right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

*** O God.....please take notcie bcoz I think I'v completed my quota of wrong ones ***

~Soni~

Another day goes by...

 I am getIting very very bored. I soo wanted to go out n party but alas I'm stuck at home with a bad cold n friends who r suddenly too busy to meet me :(.

But I did had a relaxing day today. Got up late around 11ish. Got my internet connection repaired, anti virus installed, cleaned the house a bit, paid my phone bill, talked to parents, surfed sme 100 odd channels ...baar baar laagatar, took an afternoon nap after a long time n made idli sambhar for myself ( coudn't believe it myself but it turned out yummm).

Also managed to finish a book - There's nothing like home by Marry Hignis Clark...it was actually interesting. It was about a young mother of 34 yrs. who had a terrible past to hide. She had accidentally killed her mother n now suddenly managed to find herself in the same house with her child n new husband. She tries her best to lead a normal life but as expected, the various twists n turn in the plot make it impossible for her. It does have a happy ending though, with the pretty rich lady managing to clear her name, get rid of her enemies n also marry a truly loving man. Ahem......I could guess the plot n the killer but still it was intersting. Made me wonder though that why all leading ladies of the novels that I'v read so far are tall, pretty,rich with great boyfriends/husbands....in short everything that I lack.....

I also managed to find a gr8 site called 43things; where users get to list 43 things that they want to achieve in life before they die n it keeps sending you reminders that whether they have achieved it yet or not. I was happy to find that I share so many of my life's goals with soooo many other people. I felt comforted. It's true after all that there is safety in numbers.

Tht's all for now. I'm now thinking wt to do next as I'm not sleepy at all.

~Soni~